Ghost Whisperer Season 3 Episode 3 Haunted Hero

please can you tell me who the soldier is as i have seen him in something else i can t figure it out and it getting to me as i know i have seen him in something else i need to sleep and i cant cos im baffled please tell me please please please

this episode was way to pathetic for my taste... but at least it was in sync ;-)

Very moving & emotional episode